Two Couples

15.01.19 / News / Author: Martin
Tags: infidelity

Infidelity is one of the most difficult experience to experience, when it happens, in married life … It is generally experienced as a betrayal not only the couple but the relationship itself … He who has committed the act of infidelity he is accused and is liable, besides that he is mentioned as the culprit of the unhappiness of the couple, at the same time, shame, anger, indignation and recrimination enter the scene and dominate the picture at the moment of the crisis … Countless men and women indignant, failed to understand why it happened … and exclaim, I can not be that so and so and so and so I’ve been unfaithful! So it can be, it is … It is not an isolated event, and it happens every day in couple relationships … this is not discussed, or rather, which painful groan it represents, is something else …

All that we share life with a partner we are exposed to such a situation … of course, is one of the risks. To be unfaithful, according to the dictionary is to be a traitor, is being unfair unworthy, deceitful, hypocritical and unreliable … When infidelity haunts the lives of the couple … the first thing you lose is the confidence …

But not only the confidence in one another, but also self-esteem … we are devastated … confused and beaten. Why this betrayal is so painful, it is assumed that married life has everything to be okay? In the first instance, because we have been educated from childhood and society as a whole operates on monogamy, one man and one woman for every couple .